Consumerism lure wastages

The biggest problem with consumerism is that it always lures you to consume more then but we require or need. The basic instinct of all human beings is influenced by some kind of greed and in any given opportunity it swallows our control mechanisms. The consumption is not bad till it confine to our appropriate need but invariably it lead to wastages. We tend to buy more then what we actually require. Our needs are defined with products and not by the usefulness. The rapid ever increasing deficiency in available resources is the out come of this phenomenon.

Consumerism no doubt triggers growth and such we all must enjoy all the good amenities related to good life. Key is to limit are consumption keeping in mind that it must avoid any generation of waste. Surplus word is only temporary and time cycle always changes it. When we have huge resources crunch over consumption is criminal.

The cure is in our mind and moment we start realizing and introspecting our temptations we may able to be more judicious in our consumption patterns. There is no end to greed and consumerism unfortunately some time enhance our this instinct.

Wake up to the reality (Three cups Of Tea)

Education is the only tool which can spread and propogate peace in the world. We must admire the Real achievers .

Thinking of Food

Food is key for our survival but just imagine how much time we spend in talking of food. We discuss about it before its consumption and after enjoying a sumptuous meal. Food is an essential topic in all general casual discussions. The importance of a good meal is much beyond our urge to satisfy the hunger only. Food build relationships, it make us compatible to others and most significantly allow us to enjoy the great moments.

Our eating preferences predict the approach of one self in way we are treating our life. People who are adventurers in trying different food may be more open for change and experimentation. Cooking for others exhibit our nature to please other and ultimately the passion to serve. Food ignites our excitement to live each moment of this precious life. Love and respect get stronger with mutual exchanges of treats. Food helps us in understanding different cultures, regions and religions as we start appreciating the diversities.

Excellent Book with very simple explantion of complex questions in Life

Happiness is conditional and joyfulness is unconditional

Reading this statement triggers the anxiety to learn more about happiness and joyfulness.
Happiness is momentary and it’s always set off with few actions or activities .Mostly the feeling of happiness is transitory in nature and rarely did we fall continuity in its presence. So happiness is outcome of certain favorable happening which provide us the fleeting solace. Happiness comes with some background/circumstances and we can say with condition. This is the reason for trail to happiness is on going affair in our lives.

Joyfulness is permanent state of ecstasy. The bliss that engulf us forever and without any preconditions Three are no deviation in our state of mind and everlasting joy prevails in our feeling and relations .It surpass all the mundane obstacles or conditions for being happy. It may sound unrealistic but at the same time very possible and achievable state of mind. Look for opportunities which can sail you to perpetual jubilations.

Relationships Without obligations

In all our relations in life the ubiquitous obligations always come in picture. Whatever we claim and propagate about relations without any obligation but in practical parlance it never happens. Ironically even if you evolve the relations with out any expectations still it is perceived with some expected compulsion. Relations based on mutual respect, love or affection may sound as myth to all of us. Any kind of consideration may be the base the existence of all nature of relationships.

But the other aspect of understanding is that there are relations without any obligations. It’s only possible when we are not expecting anything from any kind of relation which is almost impossible. Initiation of relations generally is without any compulsions but as we move ahead depiction start taking different colors of obligations.

The trick of sustenance is controlling our expectations out of the relations. If we are able to manage our relations with minimum expectations it may lead us to a stage where we can experience the relations without any obligations.

A Whole new Mind” Are we Ready?

This reading can awaken us to face the new era belong to divergent thinkers. We are profoundly overpowered by the one track thinking in all aspects of life and new realties of future will push us for the solutions with Human Touch.


Ultimately it’s all in the brain irrespective of left or right hemisphere and first we need to understand ourselves as “Human” to change our perspective. World has to be explored with different mind set for better future for next generations

Social Support Dieing Pact

Society over the period is more on fault finding mission among people then to facilitate them in bearing pain and frustrations.People are restrain themselves from relating to society for the known reasons.

The Shift from joint family living is playing havocs all around. The pain of loneliness is far stretched then opportunity to get more space in life. It’s making impact on our physiological age and illness is the accepted norm after certain age. Sometimes there is no one to whom we can look forward to in life.

Society is an excellence medium to counter the cropping of unwanted elements. It can curtail the notorious aspect of human beings to a large extent. The regime has its own limitations and it only get indulge in post acts instead of eradicating the distortions at beginning. Society is watch dog which ultimately can penetrate deep in human actions across the universe to weed out poison.

The difficulty of being good

Wonderful book to give us insight for self improvement

Act of Violence

The meaning of violence is understood in limited context by most of us. Individual’s behavior manifest violence in multiple dimension in our span of life. Aggressive approach, greediness, over ambitions and being selfish connote violence only. We first torture our self with avoidable sufferings resulted from defective mindset

We rarely meet a person who is at complete peace and free from all kind of violence. One has to realize that brutality or blood shed is the extreme form of violence. If we can control the act of violence at initial stage this may help in avoiding any involvement in any extreme act of violence. Always chasing the dead lines divert us to be impulsive and inconsistent approach and ultimately we fall prey to violent behavior.

For achieving the long lasting peace we must safeguard our own self from agony of undue stress. Tranquility in personality signifies the comfort and harmony with oneself. When we can ease the mind from lust and greed violence is only non consequential factor in our society.

Faith is everything

The Book nine lives tell us the story of faith and beliefs which are the prime mover in making our life meaningful .When we our rational it only results in more contradictions then leading us to any answers.

The Other Side of Story

The mind gets conditioned very soon and it can reflect in our thinking process. Our approach to receive and process the information follows the set pattern. We start perceiving only the programmed reactions in and around us. There are self created filters bound to get activated due to our mind set for visualizing only one aspect of the story.

Solutions to address this thinking process is awakening and enlightenment with gaining more information. We must develop the profound belief to explore all the information at core to its inception. Unless we dig in deep we may sound superficial and hollow in our under standings in concerning matters important for existence.


Books are unequivocally the universal media and means to shower the wisdom knowledge to depict the complete picture. Reading allows us to flow in information and knowledge and in depth clarity on any subject. Mind set can only be challenged with introspection and books are delightful resource to accomplish that.

Fear is The cause of All Miseries

Fear in any nature or kind results in miseries in our life .Fear haunt us from the path of happiness at different junctures. When we are frightened it put us in state of anxiety and stress. There is continuous battle in our mind to suppress the fear and to win over the horrific consequence of this state of mind.

Fear prevails in various dimensions in our personality and no one is immune to its presence in our approach. Intensity may vary depending on individual’s personality and circumstances. Fear of unknown is dominant in altering our thinking in negative direction. As we all feel insecure at times that is the phase which cultivate fear of unknown .Over consciousness also can put us in avoidable state of fear. Situations even compel us to get influenced by fear to some extent.

The only approach to tackle the fear is to get passionate and to be extremist in our approach. Over indulgence help us in ignoring even the common consequences. We start taking the things as they come and that result in fearlessness. The fear can be killed with fear only to end all our miseries.

When you are not True

Always speaking truth and being honest may be not that relevant in life. Truthfulness can hurt people and in some situations lead to more upheavals then harmony and peace. Keeping other person in illusions can be more appropriate for lifting the spirits of a sliding individual. In life recurrently we need breathers for moving ahead and harsh truth can deviate us from achieving the required momentum.

So hiding the facts or to disguise true picture essentially is not always detrimental for relationships. All aspects of life can not be black and white and grey areas do exists, managing these, demands maneuvering at times. We also like to play hide and seek for making our life adventuress and challenging. So when we are not true it adds twist to life.

Facing the truth is an incremental process; we seek time to prepare our mind set to accept the realties in our environment. Gradual progression is facilitated by some deviations in this path of reaching at ultimate stage of truthfulness.

When you are misunderstood

What we mean and how it is taken by another person is always intriguing aspect in dealing with people. People attempt to understand us with their own mind set and that it self lead to the misunderstandings.

These gaps are the result of lack of communication or when we are communicating without conviction. Expression is more clear and specific when we are unequivocal in demonstrating our thoughts in our words. Any manipulation in expression exposes us to the distortion in our communication. Some times we are not received in right context by another individual. This situation is more tricky and sensitive to handle. Solution is simple and straight that if we are sincere and clear in our approach the misunderstandings will remain as passing phase in dealing with others. Patient is the key factor and as well as the controlling factor in avoiding any mishaps. Vibrations of truthfulness will prevail over the cracks and persistent in pursuance of our beliefs bound to make us understood.